Juz sth to share..welcum for ur opinion

i got this from a facebook post out..just wana share something ..

怎么判断他是不是真的爱你──

第一：你们彼此都是对方最好的朋友，不带任何条件的，喜

欢与对方在一起。
Yes, ofcos we would prefer to spend most time together, if a bf/gf doesnt really want to spend most of his/her time wif u...dump him/her!

第二：彼此很容易沟通，互相可以很敞开地坦白任何事情，而不必担心被对方怀疑或轻视。
Hmm, this point arh?..I guess not every couple can easily come to this extend lor..!
I personally think that it might take longer time, well ..uh..mayb a year or 2 at least to let one-self completely be frank or to say and to do anything which mayb a lil bit uncivilised..
Cos every1 tend to be nice n look good infront of their "spouse" bah, cant blame!


第三：两个人在心灵上有共同的价值观和理念，並且对这些观念有清楚的认只与追求。
Whoa! This 1 shot me down! Grh..! Its not easy at all to get someone u like, and have the same opinion and point of view , or at least similar mindset with u tho..
U might meet ppl who agrees wif u most of the time but u might not like him/her.
Undeniably, it actually creates conflicts btween a couple when they cannot talk things thru. =(

第四：你们都认为婚姻是一辈子的事情。而且双方（特別强调“双方”）都坚定地愿意委身在这个长期的婚姻关係中。
Err..for this so far, =| no comment! Pessimistic person wont agree that marriage or any "LOVE" will last forever (or for life..) !

第五：当发生衝突或爭执的时候可以一起来解决。而不是等以后才来发作。
Yes, this is very important. He told me ,any upset or disagreement shouldnt be "brought forward" , even to just keep "it" over-night!

第六：相处可以彼此逗趣。常有欢笑。在生活中许多方面都会以幽默相待。
HAHAHAHA..maybe in the early stage yes lar...lambat-laun ..Susah lorhhhh!!

第七：彼此非常瞭解，並且接纳对方，你知道对方瞭解你的优点和缺点，仍然確信你是被他所接纳的.
RAISED BOTH HANDS UP!! Cannot agree more with this! When we have chosen or love some1, we have to love them all..the good's' as well as the bad's'.
No one is perfect!! NO!! NEITHER U URSEF! and hey! Ask ursef, does ur 'the-other-half" worth being so perfect or to be the way u want , just for u? How bout ursef?
If u think he/she cannot meet ur "requirement", PLS LET THEM GO...i guess they dont need u either! u r "WAY" too "OVER-QUALIFIED" for them!
They can get some1 who can appreciate them and to love them exactly the way they are. =p


第八：从认识你，也是你所最信任的人当中，得到支持和肯定。
Good Friends will give you genuine/true advise/comment ..even if it hurts.

第九：有时你们会有浪漫的感情，但绝大多数的时候，你们的相处是非常满足而且自在的。
Umm..feeling comfortable being with some1 is very much important for me lor..i dont know what u think..

第十：你们有一个非常理性、成熟的交往。你们双方都感受到，在许多不同的层面上，你们是很相配的。
WAHLAO...WHERE TO FIND SO GOOD PARTNER WOR??

-Zz-